Adventures in Dating By Gigi Flores and Helen Obispo Email Us! Links Archives By Gigi Flores September 26, 2010 at 5:24 pm You’ve said “I love you”, but he or she hasn’t said it back. Is that a bad sign? How long should you stick around to see if they feel the same way? This question also hit home, from a past relationship of Gigi’s and I am sure that it has happened to a lot of other people.